Poledancing? x?

Question

hiya im 19 and 16 wkks pregnant with my 1st child. I have always enjoyed pole-dancing and have been learning it for 4-5 years. My oldest sister Jayla (25) teaches it full time and has made her own business out of it! She has three kids (7,5 and 2). The 7 y.o knows what she does and isnt ashamed of it or anything. My babys dad said he wasnt ready for the responsibility when i told him i was pregnant. So after i have had my baby i was thinking about taking up poledancing profesionally. As i want to support my baby and not just sit on my ar se and collect welfare.

Here is me anyway:
http://i306.photobucket.com/albums/nn253/taylormariecole/pole.jpg
http://i306.photobucket.com/albums/nn253/taylormariecole/pole2.jpg
http://i306.photobucket.com/albums/nn253/taylormariecole/pole3.jpg
http://i306.photobucket.com/albums/nn253/taylormariecole/pole4.jpg

What do you think?
Taylor-Marie x

Answer 1

I see nothing wrong with doing this. It will be a good way to earn money. Just remember that there will be some psychological drawbacks.

Put as much money aside that you can every week for a nest egg and invest it. Pole dancing (like any type of dancing) has a limited amount of years to excel in. Aim at becoming a teacher like your sister or take some online classes and see whatelse you are good at.

Best of luck.

Answer 2

You mean teaching others to dance on a pole? Is that what you want to do? Or do you mean becoming a stripper? Because that's what it's called and their isn't too much professional about it lol - why sugarcoat it for yourself if you're going to be the one actually doing it. LOL Take my word for it - once you start stripping, you wont have any fancy little words for it. But anyways, you should go for it. You'd make it. I'd rather not judge your looks because my opinion means nothing - but your body and face are up to par enough to become a dancer. Make sure to invest in your wardrobe. The flashier and fancier your outfit is, the more guys look at you and the more they think you make lots of money, and for some reason, men tip girls who look like they already make bank. Hope I helped you.

Answer 3

I think it would be a great idea to dance for the purpose of supporting your child, however its my opinion tha tyou shuold work towards acheving a "more respectable" job as you dance to support the baby. Don't get me wrong, there is nothing worng with working as a pole dancing, it takes skill, BUT you just have to think about telling you child what mommy does for a living, and then when that child is in school - how he/she may be treated different due to the fact that you work as a dancer.

Answer 4

First, Pole-dancing is a profession. A profession that provides very good money for Innocent and not-so Innocent women.



Having your first child and having a sister who allows you to see it from a legitimate profession. That is pluses and negatives.



If you get on the pole and not get aroused, then go for it.

If you get on the pole and not get aroused when men watch you, then go for it.

If you get on the pole and not take that action outside, then go for it.

If you don't get embarrassed when your child sees you dancing, then go for it.



What we think is not importance ... it's what you want to do with your body is.

Answer 5

Your a very pretty girl, I'm sure your capable or more reputable employment...at the end of the day ask yourself would you be proud telling people your mum was a pole dancer?? i just don't know if i would be...good luck with your decision and your new baby =)